It’s Monday. The good news is the world didn’t end.* The bad news is that most of us have to return to work. I’m working on that ever-elusive dream of doing what I love so that it doesn’t feel like work. But until then every weekend is not long enough and every Friday seems out of my reach on Monday.
The best way to get through a case of the Monday’s is to be reminded of where you want to be and actively work on getting it. This is a lesson I learned a few weeks ago when my homie Maiah** and I attended the Rising Affluent conference in New York City. It was a conference geared to black and latino young professionals to help them advance and achieve their goals.
Trust me, I didn’t know what to expect when I woke up at 6am on a Saturday morning (grumpy) but when it was over I felt that I could take over the world. What’s better than feeling you can take over the world on Monday (specially since you basically beat death on Saturday)?
Here are three ways you can start working on your dreams and beat a case of the Mondays.
Be The Best at What You’re Doing
What if I hate what I’m doing you ask. The answer is: it doesn’t matter. You never know who is watching. You never know the connections you can make. The point is to create opportunities by always producing excellent quality work. Be better than the best. Whether you’re working retail or working at an office. There is no option.
Have a positive mindset
There is something to be said about self fulfilling prophecies. Nelson Boice, who spoke on a Rising Affluent panel, explained it best; there are people who say “I can” and people who say “ I can’t”. Both are correct. There may be obstacles, there may be set backs, but if you give up you will never reach your goals. The “I can” attitude is what separates those who do from those who don’t. What side are you on?
Challenge Yourself
Don’t be afraid of putting yourself in uncomfortable situations. There is a long history of people who were not happy in the position they were in and decided to do something about it (civil rights, dream act). That is when change occurs. When you’re too scared of the unknown. When you do something most people would call you crazy for. Don’t forget your vision. Don’t forget that the only way to reach your dreams is to take a chance.
Ready to take over the world? Or at least ready to follow your dreams? Make it happen.
*Shout out to my sister Claudia for calling every single person in the family to tell them she loves them pre-rapture. Then, for calling everyone again to let them know she survived the end of the world. Yes, that’s my family.
** check her out at www.writingwithwine.com